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Soft launch

/sɑft ˈlɔntʃ.ɪŋ/

Subtly revealing a new romantic partner on social media without naming them: a hand in a photo, a shadow at dinner, an unnamed silhouette.

Etymology & origin

Adapted from business terminology where a product is launched to a limited audience first.

✦ Relationship psychology

A way to share your happiness and ward off other suitors while protecting your privacy, avoiding premature family questions, or preventing post-breakup embarrassment if things are new.

Live texting example
[Posts an Instagram photo of two wine glasses on a candlelit table, with just a hint of your sleeve visible, captioned 'Friday night vibes... 🍷']
Boundary guide: how to respond
  1. 1Enjoy the subtle nod! It means they are proud of the connection but respect the pace of the relationship.
  2. 2Coordinate on boundaries: Make sure you're both on the same page about when to transition to a 'hard launch' (full face/tag).

In use since 2019

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