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New relationship energy

/njuː rɪˈleɪʃənʃɪp ˈɛnərdʒi/

The euphoric, slightly obsessive chemical rush of a relationship's early days: heightened attention, idealization, infatuation. Abbreviated NRE.

Etymology & origin

Originating in the polyamorous community but widely adopted across all relationship styles to describe the 'honeymoon phase'.

✦ Relationship psychology

NRE is driven by dopamine, oxytocin, and PEA. It can temporarily blind you to compatibility issues and red flags because your brain is literally high on your new partner.

Live texting example
I've only known her for two weeks but I literally can't eat, sleep, or think about anything else. I'm completely intoxicated!
Boundary guide: how to respond
  1. 1Enjoy the beautiful rush, but pace yourself physically and emotionally.
  2. 2Keep your friends and routines active to ground yourself in reality.
  3. 3Avoid making massive, life-altering decisions (like moving in together) while under the heavy influence of NRE.

In use since 2010

#infatuation#honeymoon#dopamine#excitement
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