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Delusionship
/dɪˈluː.ʒən.ʃɪp/
A relationship that exists mostly in one person's head: sustained daydreaming over someone barely known, or barely interested. The noun form of delulu.
Etymology & origin
A portmanteau of 'delusion' and 'relationship', stemming from the internet slang term 'delulu'.
✦ Relationship psychology
A form of romantic escapism. It protects the daydreamer from the actual risks, rejections, and vulnerabilities of real-life dating by creating a perfect, flawless fantasy partner.
Live texting example
I literally made eye contact with the cute guy on the subway today and we are basically married in my head now. My delusionship is thriving!
Boundary guide: how to respond
- 1Enjoy the fun daydreaming, but don't let it block you from pursuing real, mutual connections.
- 2Ground yourself: Remind yourself that you don't actually know this person's personality yet.
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