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Cuffing season
/ˈkʌf.ɪŋ ˌsiː.zən/
The colder months, roughly October through February, when people reportedly seek a steady partner for the season, often parting by spring.
Etymology & origin
Urban slang popularized in hip-hop and internet culture around 2011.
✦ Relationship psychology
Driven by biological and social factors: less sunlight can lower serotonin, leading to a natural nesting instinct, while holiday family gatherings and winter social pressure make couples feel warmer and safer.
Live texting example
Ugh it's so freezing out! Let's just order Thai food, build a fort, and watch Netflix for the next 48 hours straight. ❄️🍿
Boundary guide: how to respond
- 1Have fun but stay aware of the clock: If you are dating in winter, be conscious of whether the connection has lasting legs or is just a cozy convenience.
- 2Clarify intentions if you are looking for long-term: 'I love our cozy winter nights, but I want to make sure we're building something that outlasts the snow!'
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